On Being’s Krista Tippett’s interview with the late John Lewis included this exchange on “living as if” your possibility is already reality (excerpt): Lewis: But later I discovered, I guess, that you have to have this sense of faith that…
The DNA industry’s Pandora’s box: connecting to others
CNN Travel highlights two risks of DNA testing that connects you to other people in surprising ways. Tim Curran writes (excerpt): . . . Among them [the potential surprises], [Samuel] Burke lists finding out a parent was unfaithful or that…
Say what else is true: poetry, conflict, friendship
The Poetry Unbound newsletter from Pádraig Ó Tuama reminds us that there’s more than the “yeah, but” or the “and yet” or the “however” in poetry, in conflict, in relationships, in life. There’s the “also.” Pádraig Ó Tuama writes (excerpt):…
Both/And: the American patriot and the psychology of good people
CNN’s Life but Better helps us understand how to be the patriot our country needs. In her interview of Dolly Chugh, Angela Duckworth writes (excerpt): Chugh: Practice paradox spotting! You can do it everywhere. Our brains like consistency and resist…
2023 Best Law Firms – Professional Review and Rating of The Sarnacki Law Firm
Best Lawyers in America selected The Sarnacki Law Firm for its 2023 Edition of U.S. News – Best Lawyers “Best Law Firms.” The Best Lawyers in America is one of the oldest and most respected peer-review publications in the legal…
Calming baby science: the scientific method for putting baby to bed
CNN Relationships show us how Japanese researchers discovered that 5 plus 8 makes sweet dreams. Sandee LaMotte writes (excerpt): Here’s how it works: Walk your baby for a minimum of five minutes with no sudden movements, at which time the…
Asking for & responding to: encountering some sacred mystery in the word Help
On Being’s The Pause Newsletter featured Pádraig Ó Tuama’s reflection on help Ó Tuama writes (excerpt): . . . Depending on your personality, it can feel like hell to ask for help. It starts off sounding like hell too, but…
Grand Rapids Magazine’s 2022 Top Lawyers in Family Law & Mediation: Peer Review and Rating of David C. Sarnacki
Once again, David C. Sarnacki has been selected to Grand Rapids Magazine’s list of Top Lawyers, this time for 2022. Recognized by his peers for excellence in Family Law [divorce and custody] and Mediation, he was chosen by a confidential…
Parenting principles for sports: adults letting kids be kids
CNN Health shows how parents can let kids enjoy sports as kids. Matt Villano interviews Linda Flanagan and writes about her top 4 principles (excerpt): The first is to look at your child and recognize that interest and passion in…
Professional Rating and Review of David Sarnacki: 2023 Best Lawyers in America
Best Lawyers in America announced that Grand Rapids attorney and mediator David C. Sarnacki has been selected by attorneys and judges for inclusion in the 29th Edition of The Best Lawyers in America. David was recognized for his outstanding work…
Love over mood: dictating your behavior when in a bad mood
The Union Democrat and Tribune News Service offers up psychotherapist Barton Goldsmith’s 5 tips for keeping your relationship in emotional balance. Goldsmith writes (excerpt): 1. If either one of you gets your feelings hurt, stop and talk about it ASAP.…
Professional Rating and Review of David Sarnacki, 2022 Super Lawyers Review: Excellence
Thomson Reuters’ Super Lawyers selected David C. Sarnacki to the 2022 Michigan Super Lawyers list. This honor is reserved for lawyers exhibit top-5% excellence and reflects peer review by attorneys and judges. Mr. Sarnacki’s Grand Rapids practice helps clients transition…
Imperfect parenting, with balance and love
The Grand Island Independent highlights psychotherapist Barton Goldsmith’s parenting tips. The advice covers appreciation, empathy, acceptance, self-confidence, affection and self-reliance. Goldsmith writes [excerpt]: You will make mistakes as a parent, so give yourself a break when you do. Similarly, allow…
New legal resource: how to write a brief for court
David C. Sarnacki published The Essence of Writing Persuasive Trial Briefs: Big Ideas for Mastering Mediation, Arbitration & Trial Briefs. The short, practical book is available in both ebook and paperback form on Amazon and other retailers. A wealth of…
It’s preventable: the leading cause of U.S. children and adolescent deaths
The New England Journal of Medicine reported our new #1 cause killing our kids: gun deaths, rising for nearly every racial and ethnic group. Jason E. Goldstick, Ph.D., Rebecca M. Cunningham, M.D., and Patrick M. Carter, M.D., all from the…
A lover, not a fighter: arming yourself with loving, honest and open communication
CNN Health counsels couples on effective arguments. “One of the most important things we’ve seen in our research is that people benefit most from being direct,” said [FSU psychology professor] Jim McNulty . . . . “Beating around the bush,…
Professional Review and Rating: David C. Sarnacki, 2022 Top Rated Litigator
ALM Media/Martindale-Hubbell selected David C. Sarnacki as a 2022 Top Rated Litigator. With 37 years experience in problem solving and powerful advocacy, he is a top-rated attorney and mediator in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Mr. Sarnacki’s Grand Rapids practice helps clients…
Emotions & meltdowns–the lesson plan for teaching children
CNN Health offers us tips on helping children process emotions and feelings. with assistance from Indianapolis behavioral pediatrician Dr. Nerissa Bauer and Professor Marc Brackett, also the director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. Megan Marples writes that parents…
Relationship Rescue: another joy of reuniting opportunity
Retrouvaille in Grand Rapids is scheduled for March 4-6, 2022. The program is designed to help married couples who are in the midst of difficult challenges. For more information, call 616-635-1046 or email retrograndrapids@gmail.com. Note: If you’re not near Grand…
Intuition & red flags: when your gut might be right about an affair
Kim Komando highlights cellphone and tech clues of infidelity in relationships. She writes (excerpt): Before we get to the digital cheating crumbs, my best advice is to have an honest conversation with your partner. Couples therapy is an excellent place…