The Orlando Sentinel reports on how collaborative divorce promotes a kinder, gentler process.
Mark Schlueb writes (excerpt):
“You’re focusing on the children from the start,” she said. “And people who have been through it say they came out with communication skills they didn’t have before.”
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“What makes judges so sad is we see people fighting desperately, but if they would refocus on what’s best for the family, they could find common ground. They’ll spend all their assets on the divorce, and all they know how to do at the end is fight,” she said. “I wish we could change the law so people had to consider collaborative law first, before they came to court to fight.”
If you would like to hear a wonderful interview with two Collaborative Family Law clients, aired on NPR last week, pull up this link…http://content70b.omroep.nl/65afb8a82a827ae2063208b3bc3cd89e/4a12dccb/06/rnw/smac/cms/collaborative_divorce__a_personal_story_20090516_44_1kHz.mp3