Ozy highlights a Boston University study suggesting Facebook is “a positive, significant predictor of divorce rate and spousal troubles.” Apparently, Henry David Thoreau* was right about true cost: “The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for…
Who has the power to change your life?
CNN celebrated Positive Thinking Day (September 13th) by offering “five expert tips to help you think yourself well.” The point is to take responsibility for your happiness and to do something. Sara Cheshire included these tips (excerpt): Be aware of…
Who do professionals recommend as one of the best divorce lawyers and divorce lawyers in Grand Rapids?
Best Lawyers in America announced that once again, David Sarnacki was selected by judges and lawyers as one of The Best Lawyers in America. He was honored in three practice areas relating to divorce litigation and divorce mediation: 1. Collaborative…
Spilling your guts and other concerns when preparing for divorce
Kim Komando adds 5 things to your To Do List when a divorce is coming, as well as an opening warning to think twice before posting to social media. In the column, Komando has tips regarding passwords, social media profiles,…
“Imagining Jesus as someone who laughed and who had — God forbid — fun”
Marquette University’s commencement speaker is well known to Colbert fans–Rev. James Martin, S.J. His remarks–jokes included–can be found at Marquette’s link here.
Considering Cosby: comedy with commentary
CNN-HLNtv offers us a take on Bill Cosby’s “10 greatest lessons.” Colette Bennett’s slideshow commentary includes these life lessons (excerpt): 1. Age is in your mind: “Old is always 15 years from now.” 2. Fear is all that’s stopping you:…
A passion for social justice: Michael Chielens, rest in peace
MLive notes the passing of “one of those great people,” Michael Chielens, Executive Director of Legal Aid of Western Michigan, who died of cancer this past weekend. Sue Thoms writes (excerpt): “He just had a heart for the underdog and…
Best Lawyers’ Best Law Firms in Grand Rapids
The Sarnacki Law Firm PLC has been awarded a Tier 1 Ranking in the 2014 Edition of U.S. News – Best Lawyers’ “Best Law Firms.” The firm’s founder, David C. Sarnacki, practices family law, mediation and collaborative divorce in Grand…
Overwhelming mistakes: how to deal with common problems in facing divorce
The Huffington Post includes “The 5 Worst Mistakes People Make During Divorce.” Contributor Michelle Rozen also posts her tips for making it through your divorce. Michelle Rozen discusses her top 5 (excerpt): Making Decisions Without Fully Understanding the Implications Losing…
The story behind the facts: How to get someone to talk
The New York Times Opinionator reminds us that what’s good for writers is good for us all. When you are “seeking the unknown — the story behind the facts,” the secret is is simple. Lee Gutkind writes (excerpt): This is…
Steps to a Happier Life
U.S. News offers research on how simple adjustments of habit may translate to greater feelings of fulfillment and well-being. While strategies were provided for each age demographic, certain practices rang true for all: Express gratitude Cultivate optimism Avoid overthinking and social comparison…
Best Lawyers in America Selection
David Sarnacki has been selected by attorneys and judges for inclusion in Best Lawyers in America, 19th Edition. His peer-review selection includes three areas: Family Law; Family Law Mediation; and Collaborative Law–Family Law.
Strengthen the Relationship with Your Kids
With the fall school year approaching, The Huffington Post and Deborah Moskovitch outline tips for adjusting families to improve parent-child relationships. 1. Re-frame your thinking: Rather than clocking minutes, place emphasis on the quality of time you are spending together. 2. Be…
How to improve your relationship: Love starts with empathy
Real Age and Sharecare explains how reading your partner’s emotions and feeling your partner’s efforts to understand your own emotions relate to happiness in the relationship. Julie Hanks writes (excerpt): Listen for emotional messages [the emotional message may be different…
Flirting with an apology
USA Today’s Ask Stacy reminds us of the three elements of a true apology: “sorry,” responsibility for the choice taken, and promise for the future. Stacy Kaiser writes (excerpt): A true apology should consist of three elements: taking responsibility for…
Why your kids should be happy
CNN and Parenting.com give us the “Top 10 Parenting Fails of 2011.” If you didn’t make the list, rejoice! Sasha Emmons of Parenting.com includes items on: Mom Uses Hot Sauce as Punishment Moms Selling Babies Girl Brings Dad’s Cocaine to…
The power of positivity: Gottman says awareness, tolerance, understanding, non-defensive listening, and empathy
CNN includes tips on what to do if you want more sex in your life. It’s the same secret to a lasting relationship and marriage: be nice. Ian Kerner, the Good in Bed counselor, quotes Emily Nagoski, the self-proclaimed Sex…
Trying to control your ex versus just smiling
The Love and Logic newsletter encourages parents to avoid the tendency of kids to throw one parent’s house rules against the other. L&L also reassures us that children can have two homes and still grow into healthy adults. Dr. Charles…
Facebook bombs: Shattered, My brain’s been battered
CNN covers Facebook’s facilitation of emotional affairs and infidelity. Ian Kerner writes (excerpt): [W]hile feeling attraction is unavoidable, acting on it crosses the line. Attraction is one ingredient of an emotional affair. In order for attraction to launch into an…
You… you complete me: The sustainable-marriage quiz
The New York Times highlights the role of self-expansion in marriages and relationships: how helping your partner become a better person, makes the relationship happier and more satisfied. The article includes a link to the “sustainable-marriage quiz” Tara Parker-Pope writes…