The Kansas City Star discounts the mantra about “fixing” your marriage. They highlight Morrie and Arleah Shechtman, authors of “Love in the Present Tense.”
Edward M. Eveld writes (excerpt):
“Our approach is that relationships don’t have problems, people do,” Morrie Shechtman said.
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[Morrie and Arleah Shechtman’s list of core values for a great marriage include:]
Personal growth
Willingness to challenge each other
Pre-eminence of the adult relationship
Dedication to your life’s purpose
Inner renewal
Personal responsibility
Accountability
Quality communication