The Grand Rapids Press announces the city’s district court decision to require premarital counseling as a condition for marriage by a judge.
Barton Deiters writes (excerpt):
Chief District Judge Benjamin Logan says the judges wanted to get couples to look before they leap.
“Most people mean well when they get married, but they don’t always think things through,” Logan said.
It makes sense to have a few hours of preparation, said Judge David Buter, who served as chief judge when the court first considered the move.
“We have to attempt to convince people that they are making a serious lifetime commitment that could affect them and their children,” Buter said.
Logan said the judges were persuaded by a talk with Kentwood District Judge William Kelly six months ago.
Since 1999, Kentwood has required couples to provide proof they had counseling, through a church or a program offered at the Pine Rest Family Services unit on 68th Street SE.
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The counseling covers topics such as blending families from previous marriages, financial issues, cultural differences and lifestyle compatibility.