Domestic Diversions

The MayoClinic and CNN suggest we think of sex education as an ongoing conversation and provide advice on getting the conversation started (excerpt):
* Seize the moment. When a TV program or music video raises issues about responsible sexual behavior, use it as a springboard for discussion. . . .
* Keep it low-key. Don’t pressure your child to talk about sex. Simply broach the subject when you’re alone with your child. . . .
* Be honest. If you’re uncomfortable, say so — but explain that it’s important to keep talking. If you don’t know how to answer your child’s questions, offer to find the answers or look them up together.
* Be direct. Clearly state your feelings about specific issues, such as oral sex and intercourse. Present the risks objectively, including emotional pain, sexually transmitted diseases and unplanned pregnancy. Explain that oral sex isn’t a risk-free alternative to intercourse.
* Consider your child’s point of view. . . .
* Move beyond the facts. . . . [I]t’s just as important to talk about feelings, attitudes and values. . . .
* Invite more discussion. . . .