Setting aside the ‘I want to win’ mentality in divorce
Written on August 20, 2011 by David C. Sarnacki
The National Post highlights Ontario’s move toward mandatory information sessions promoting divorce mediation. Kathryn Blaze Carlson writes (excerpt):
Had Scott McLarty and his then-wife been forced to consider divorce mediation as an alternative to litigation, he might have been spared $15,000 in legal fees and a two-year court battle over spousal support.
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“I think it would have been a catalyst for us to take a step back, take a deep breath, and see if there were things we could sort out on our own,” said Mr. McLarty, 57, of the demise of a 25-year union that was ultimately settled out of court to save money. “When you’re going through a divorce, you’re angry, you’re depressed, you’re in an ‘I want to win’ mentality. The information session encourages you to try to work together and come to a solution.”
Posted in Divorce Grand Rapids, Mediation/ADR
September 15th, 2011 at 5:32 pm
So often communication is the problem. It would seem that there would be a lot less of a need for lawyers if people could effectively act civilly to each other when going through a family law break up.