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		<title>The search for the right therapist</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 17:23:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David C. Sarnacki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Wall Street Journal explains the challenges in finding the right patient therapist fit and how those challenges can be overcome by asking three questions: How would you propose treating me? How long do you think it would take? How do you know what you do works?
Melinda Beck writes (excerpt):
One issue for prospective patients is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Predicting good psychological outcomes: How to make it through your divorce</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Oct 2011 12:57:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David C. Sarnacki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[USA Today and Health Day reveal the secret to getting through a divorce and coming out okay: self-compassion.
Robert Preidt writes (excerpt):
They [the University of Arizona researchers] explained that self-compassion &#8212; a combination of kindness toward oneself, recognition of common humanity, and the ability to let painful emotions pass &#8212; &#8220;can promote resilience and positive outcomes [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Conflicting perceptions and, yet, collaboration</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jun 2011 11:29:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David C. Sarnacki</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Collaborative Divorce]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Everything you can imagine is real.”–Pablo Picasso
You’ve heard the saying: Perception is reality. So how can we collaborate through divorce negotiations to a fair resolution when you and your spouse start with such vastly different sets of perceptions?
As strange as it seems, the collaborative divorce process actually moves you through perceptions by promoting fairness in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Focusing on solutions: Saving money with divorce mediation and collaborative divorce</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Apr 2011 12:56:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David C. Sarnacki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[CBS Money Watch offers Jane Bryant Quinn&#8217;s list of &#8220;10 Steps to Avoid Losing Your Shirt in a Divorce.&#8221;
Jane Bryant Quinn writes (excerpt):
10. Put $$$ in your pocket by avoiding a battle with your spouse. In hard times, divorcing couples struggle for every dime. But the more you fight, the more of those dimes vanish [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Collaborating your way through perceptions</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Oct 2010 17:04:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David C. Sarnacki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Grand Rapids Collaborative Divorce shows us how the collaborative divorce process can move through perceptions by promoting fairness in ways the court system simply cannot (excerpt):
In a collaborative divorce, you are accorded dignity and respect.  The commitment from the very start is not about the past, fighting or blame.  The professionals move the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A bit foreign, scary even: Collaborative divorce</title>
		<link>http://domesticdiversions.com/index.php/a-bit-foreign-scary-even-collaborative-divorce/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 13:52:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David C. Sarnacki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Single Parent Gossip shares the method for using collaborative law to resolve your divorce out of court.
Talibah Mbonisi writes (excerpt):
. . . In this cooperative framework, both parties also agree to:
- Act in their children’s best interests to minimize any negative impact that the situation could have on them.
- Be respectful to one another, stay [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The inventor of the Collaborative Divorce Process</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 11:58:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David C. Sarnacki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stu Webb is being honored for finding a better way to divorce at the 10th International Academy of Collaborative Professionals Educational Forum.
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